2008-06-21

Get Your Ex Back

Do you ever sit around, feeling sorry for yourself asking; when am I going to be reunited with my ex?


Is everyone happily married, or in a relationship, except for me?


Your ex boyfriend or partner may be the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.



Since he is no longer with you, chances are he will not jump out of your TV screen and he won’t turn up miraculously from under your duvet cover!


If you spend your time moaning to your friends about your ex, and telling them how much he has hurt you - it is time for you to make some big changes!


5 effective secret tips -to help get your ex back


Secret 1

During the break-up period with your ex he may have telephoned you occasionally, out of the blue; it’s now very important to keep any conversations that you have with him, to a minimum.


Secret 2

If your ex wants your attention, he will now have to work hard for it. For instance, he may start phoning you; because you are not chasing anymore. He might call you, to find out if you are all right; asking you how you are coping with the break-up, or even better, he is already missing you! Never be tempted to talk to him on the telephone; listening to his problems, or telling him just how heartbroken you are.


Secret 3

Dealing with mutual friends

STOP ‘bad mouthing’ or talking about your ex to mutual friends you share. The best secret concerning shared friends is to give the appearance of being happy at all times in their presence, even if you do feel like breaking down and crying. Keep mutual friends second guessing about you and what’s going on in your life. After all they may still be communicating with your ex. If that is the case you can use them to your advantage to make sure he knows that you are not an emotional wreck, just because you are now no longer together.


Secret 4

STOP driving past the place where he is living or working. After all, you do not want to be accused of stalking him!


Secret 5

Do not make the mistake of texting or emailing him constantly. This will just have you shouting at your cell phone screen “Come on, answer”, or checking every few minutes for a reply from him.



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Getting A Little Risque With Sexy Clothes

You know you’re stunning and you are anything but afraid of showing off your body. You crave the sexiest of the sexy, the raciest of the racy. What can you add to your wardrobe?


Why not claw your way into a racy catsuit? A catsuit is a one-piece dud with legs and long-sleeves that covers your whole bod. It occasionally comes with feet or gloves and is made from an array of fabrics, most commonly velour, spandex or leather. If you want a piece that will totally accentuate your curves, the cat suit wins effortlessly.


You already own a garter - but have you ever considered a sexy garter set? Conventionally, these sets encompass the garter belt, super hot nylons and on occasion come with bra and panties. You can wear the garter belt with a cute undergarment, or go completely bare! Like babydolls, chemises are another movable, breezy lingerie gown. See-through and sheer, chemises give you the option to wear on top of a coordinating bra and panties or as a sexy stand-alone outfit.


When it comes to risqu sexy clothes, the bodystocking takes the cake. This delicious piece is like the unitard’s kinky sister. It is made super-tight and usually from a delicate, translucent fabric. It can be sleeveless or have long sleeves. But the most carefree woman will be delighted to learn that the raciest bodystockings include cut-outs in the chest area for breasts to be exposed. Talk about eye candy.


Don’t forget to add a few thrilling accessories. How about some elegantly sexy gloves, like a fingerless, lacy pair? Or a midnight black leather, forearm version? Then, give your hair some flair with a sparkly scrunchie or other hair accessory.


From the subtly sexy to the full-frontal sexy, sexy clothes are everywhere. Don’t hesitate to shop around to find clothes you feel comfortable, sexy and confident in. Make every piece you own count.



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Sexy Shoes For Ugly Feet

When it comes to planning your outfit, have you considered your shoes? Sexy shoes can make all the difference and really top off a perfect outfit but so many women overlook their footwear.

A totally perfect outfit could be ruined if you don’t top it all off with the right footwear. Could you be neglecting your feet?




Try this: put on a sexy mini skirt and a pair of high heel boots. See if it doesn’t draw attention to your best assests. Just remember you need to take care of those legs and feet. Keep your toe nails neatly trimmed and painted. Shave your legs regularly and use lotions and creams on them. Take care of your legs and feet and you will feel wonderful every day.


When it comes to the shoes themselves, there are five great main categories that sexy shoes may fall into:


Platform Shoes Sandals Pumps Wide Width Shoes Boots

Pumps have long been considered sexy shoes. For years women have worn pumps and high heels to boost height and create a sexy curvature in the calves. From 1” for 3-4” or higher, there are many shapes, sizes and styles of pumps to complete your hot look. A great pair of pumps can make any woman look great in their outfit and feel confident in themselves.


In recent years we have seen a big come back with platform style shoes. Platforms are great for a lot of reasons. You want to add a little height? Feeling vertically challenged? Try a sexy pair of platform shoes. Not only will you feel and look taller but your legs will look longer and sexier. Just like pumps, platforms come in many different shapes and sizes. There is always a pair that will help you complete that ultimate look you want.


Who says sandals can’t be sexy? If you’re looking to make a real statement with your feet, you can choose from sleek and sexy sandals. If you want something more comfortable to dance in, you might prefer a flatter sole. High-heeled sandals, strappy sandals and those with ankle straps give you a hot look no matter what you are wearing. Sandals give you a chance to show off your feet and your great sense of style. You can even try them with your favorite pair of blue jeans.


One of my personal favorite types of footwear is boots. I’m not talking about work boots. I’m talkinga about ankle boots, knee highs, thigh highs, I like them all. Nothing sexier in my opinion than a short mini skirt or short shorts with a pair of lace up knee high boots. Stilleto heeled thigh highs are one of my favorite. I know when I put a pair of sexy boots on that I will get the attention I want. And so will you!


Have a wide foot? No problem. Most manufacturers make wide width sandals, pumps and boots. You can still feel and look sexy in your footwear all the while staying comfortable. There is nothing worse than trying to squeeze your foot into a typical pair of sandals or shoes. Just remember to take care of those feet by wearing the proper size.


You need to consider some things when picking out those sexy shoes to go with your outfits. Of course what your planning to do and where you are going is one of the most important factors to consider. Personal taste always plays a role in your choices but I’ve listed some hints to help:


* How long will you be wearing your shoes? If only a short time maybe you can be creative and wear something a little more exotic. If your planning a day of it, or a night of it you might want to choose something a bit more comfortable that will put less stress on your legs and feet.


* Whats the occasion? If your going dancing or walking, wear shoes that are comfortable. You can look great without giving up the comfort.


* Always make sure your wearing the proper size. If your shoes are too small or too large you will be uncomfortable and prolonged wearing of the wrong size shoe can lead to serious medical problems with not only your feet but with your back and legs. This is true no matter what style shoe you choose for your outfit.


* Be creative with your shoes. Don’t fall into the rut of thinking the only pair of sexy shoes are brown or black. There are lots of colors available from shoe companies so don’t be afraid to experiment with different colors.


Putting together that perfect outfit for a long night of dancing or that hot and steamy date means you don’t want to forget about your feet. Get a pedicure. Pamper those tootsys and show them off.



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2008-06-20

5 Essentials For Great Sex For Married Couples

A common complaint for married couples is unsatisfactory sexuality. What makes great sex?

Here are 5 essential ingredients for not just healthy sex, but great sex!




1. Naked and Not Ashamed

Genesis 2:25 gives the building blocks to a solid foundation of a healthy marriage and sexuality: Intimacy. Dictionary.com defines shame as “the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, and ridiculous.” Adam and Eve had just met, and yet they felt “naked and not ashamed.” There was an emotional, physical, and spiritual safety. Great sex is a by product of such intimacy between two people.


2. Fly Solo with your Spouse

The sweetest sex occurs by taking the time to nurture the relationship with one person over time. Some say staying married to the same person is boring. Quite the contrary! It becomes an adventure to walk the twists and turns with your mate on this journey called life. We get to rediscover our spouse a new over time with the added benefit of knowing them from the past.


3. Have it!

In the busyness of life, it is amazing how easy sex is neglected in married couples. This can happen in all phases of marriage: newlywed, small children, adolescent children and empty nest. Somehow we think great sex comes when everything has to be perfect: the lighting, the place, the music. These are the icing, but sometimes you just have the cake, which can be equally satisfying.


4. Pleasurable techniques

Each spouse desires to satisfy their spouse sexually, yet may feel inadequate because they may lack the practical know-how. A good place to start is to just begin touching one another, especially the erogenous zones of the body: the gentials and breasts. Then share your preferences with one another. Do some research on fulfilling lovemaking techniques and utilze them.


5. Communication

Communication is simply talking about everything that makes sex better. Ambience, places, technique, and frequency are good ideas to begin to discuss with your spouse. If you want pleasurable lovemaking, then you must communicate your likes to your spouse. He/she cannot read your mind. You and your spouse can become the best sex coaches for your marriage if you are willing to communicate your sexual needs and desires.



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